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Great Advice: Reward for Calm!
This is one of my favorite animal training tips: reward for calm. Relaxed on a mat, a great time to reward. Easier said than done, yes!...
Shel Graves
Mar 62 min read
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Sensory Gardens for Dogs: What Could a Horticulturalist Do for Dogs?
Heidi Skievaski, owner of Sublime Gardens , wrote a fantastic blog on the topic: Creating Sensory Gardens for Dogs: A Haven of...
Shel Graves
Feb 272 min read
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Going on a Getaway With Your Dog: Setting up Success!
Question: Should I take my house-trained, crate-trained dog with me on vacation? Answer: It depends. If you do, make sure to set them...
Shel Graves
Feb 214 min read
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The Most Difficult Dog to Train...
Question: Are you having difficulty with a barking, jumping, or lunging dog? Do you suspect this may be partly your fault because you...
Shel Graves
Feb 142 min read
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The Most Untrainable Breed of Dog…
Question: Will certain breeds of dog defy your attempts to teach them basic manners? Are Shih Tzus too stubborn? Frenchies too willful?...
Shel Graves
Feb 72 min read
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Helping Fearful Dogs Part Two: Classical Conditioning or Becoming Wonderfully Not Scary
To me, training is all about developing a solid way of communicating with animals, paying attention to what they are saying with their...
Shel Graves
Dec 6, 20244 min read
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Helping Fearful Dogs Part One: Operant Conditioning or Why You Might Teach Your Dog Tricks
To me, training is all about developing a solid way of communicating with animals, paying attention to what they are saying with their...
Shel Graves
Nov 29, 20245 min read
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For a Happier Life With Dogs and Cats: Appreciate the Individual
Recently I taught a class at Edmonds College’s Creative Retirement Institute on Animal Behavior: How to Have a Happier Life With Your...
Shel Graves
Nov 22, 20243 min read
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To Fence or Not to Fence A: I'm Not a Fan of Invisible Scary Things
Recently, I had a client ask me what I thought about invisible fences. They were not surprised to hear that I am not a fan. One concern...
Shel Graves
Nov 15, 20244 min read
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For All Beings: Culture of Compassion, Systems of Compassion
At Shel Graves Animal Consulting, we seek to create a Culture of Compassion and encourage awareness of our Divine connection. We want all...
Shel Graves
Nov 13, 20241 min read
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Not all the pie: What to do with a fearful dog (or cat) at Thanksgiving
The holidays are coming. There are going to be a lot of new foods, new people, new decorations, and new things around your house. If you...
Shel Graves
Nov 1, 20244 min read
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Bark! by Zazie Todd The Book You Want for Your Fearful Dog
Bark! The Science of Helping Your Anxious, Fearful, or Reactive Dog by Zazie Todd is the book (and the knowledge) I wish I had had...
Shel Graves
Oct 25, 20242 min read
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The Roller Coaster Effect: Answering the Question About When a Dog Looks Excited But Also Seems Unsure
Oh my goodness. Ears flying. Tongue lolling. Wiggling. Jumping. Spinning. Is there anything better than a dog who is happy and excited?...
Shel Graves
Oct 22, 20243 min read
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Doing Our Best for Animals
Hello, I’m celebrating six months as Shel Graves Animal Consulting, Doing Our Best for Animals. Six months in business, woo hoo! The time...
Shel Graves
Oct 11, 20243 min read
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Book Review: Breed Differences in Dog Behavior: Why Tails Wag Differently
I have listened to a number of webinars and podcasts on the topic of whether dog breed affects behavior. A favorite is the Enrichment for...
Shel Graves
Sep 20, 20242 min read
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Dog Book Review: Play With Your Dog by Pat Miller CPDT, CDBC
Recently, I wrote a review of Dr. Mikel Maria Delgado’s new book Play With Your Cat! published in 2024. Short review: I recommend it! Is...
Shel Graves
Aug 23, 20242 min read
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Dog Crates: Woo hoo! or B00 Hoo? Do You Have to Use Them? Crate-Training for Fearful Dogs and House-Training
I have had and worked with a number of dogs who, prior to coming to live with me, spent way too much time confined in a crate. So, I...
Shel Graves
Aug 16, 20242 min read
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That Dog behind the Fence and Your Daily Dog Walk: Fenceline Running: “Woo hoo!” or “Boo hoo!” ?
Instead of fenceline running on your walk, try this instead: Take another route! Cross the street. Avoid this interaction. Go quickly by....
Shel Graves
Aug 9, 20245 min read
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Sept. 28, Everett: Shel Graves Animal Consulting at Everett Public Library, How to Make Your Dog or Cat Happier
Shel Graves Animal Consulting will be speaking in-person at Everett Public Library. How to Make Your Dog or Cat Happier will be 2 pm,...
Shel Graves
Jul 27, 20242 min read
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Sept. 14, Everett: Shel Graves Animal Consulting at Sno-Isle Food Co-op with Fun Activities for Happy Dogs and Cat
Shel Graves Animal Consulting will be at the Sno-Isle Food Co-op 3-5 pm, Sat., Sept. 14 for a free workshop on Fun Activities for Happy...
Shel Graves
Jul 23, 20242 min read
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